Question

What do you believe defines love?

Answer 1

Hello friend
Great question

LOVE
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We have heard many times that
• I love you
• I love her
• I love him
• I love my parents
• I love my country
• I love my children

Have heard much more than these

Usually we calls
• Attachment
•Desire
•Sensations
•Dependency
•Feelings
As love we just label these things as love.

But we never thought that is this love!

Attachment : Attachment is not be labelled as love let us take an

Example : If you meet who drinks and if you ask him that if he likes drinking or not, he will definitely say he will definitely say that I loves drinking .
But his heart says that it is harmful for him but why does he said this that he loves drinking because he is attached to it I can't leave it because it gives him kick only small time

This is not love.

Desire : Many times label desires as love but we never thought is it love ?
let's take an
Example : let you are very strongly desired to play with a video game and you are asking your father for buying it, after sometime he buys it for you. You be very happy at that time and will say I love this game but what will happen after some days you will start dis attachment with it and after some more days you will be desired for another video game or something else.
This is not love and you must not a label it as love

Sensation : sensations are kind of feelings which remains for only 2 or 3 minutes these are shortest feelings but are most powerful.
These sensations or feelings can be triggered by anything like- this can be triggered if you see a new game food, girl ,boy or any other things .due to sensations your heart and your other body parts starts acting according to the situations. Most of the time it is seen that in this situations person lost his/her consciousness at that time , any work done in the flow of sensations can never led you to right paths.

Dependency : you might have seen that a woman whose husband drink will never say that she does not likes her husband but she says that she loves him very much even though she hates him she says this only because she knows that if she will leave him she can't live alone and she has a fear about what the society will say.

Thus we can't label dependency too as love.

Feelings : All things I mentioned above above create some kind feelings inside us some feelings are short and some feelings remains for some months but no feeling is permanent this.

Then the question arises that what is love

Let you want to come first in the class and is preparing for it with very good determination and in the final results you come first in the class this will create a sense of fulfillment inside your heart you will say yourself yes I have got what I want, this will this will remain for more time than any other feeling.

This sense of fulfilment is called LOVE.

"Love is not a temporary feeling or emotion,
Feelings and Emotions change sometimes,daily .
But True Unconditional Love Is Everlasting"

It means sense of fulfilment inside you forever is called LOVE.

" True love can't be done with anything it can only be done with yourself"

Thanks.