what is the affection between a gir and boy
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You can love someone without being attracted to them sexually. You can care about them deeply as a person. But that doesn't mean you need to be in a relationship with them, because that's pretty much leading them on. What if you found out your significant other wasn't attracted to YOU? It'd hurt your feelings. Basically, this other stable, reliable person deserves to be with someone who is attracted to them just like you deserve to be with someone whom you are attracted to. However, this other person you mentioned doesn't seem to want to be in a relationship. So it is also possible to have lust without love. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, but maybe neither of these people are The Right One though eithercould be your Right Now depending on if you want the stability or the attraction, whichever is more important to you right now.