What is the most positive attitude in a conflicting situation
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Conflicting situation basically means that there is no acceptance of other persons thought process or your own thought process is not accepted by others. Conflicting situation also means you have two or more thought processes at the same time and are in a dilemma as to what is right and what is wrong.
Based on the two scenarios one could deal with this in two different ways:
Conflict involving two people
we must first understand that the concept of RIGHT and WRONG is very rare. there are very few things in the world that are absolutely right or wrong. every other matter is situational. our personalities lie as GREY areas and not completely white or black. therefore there are definite instances where we may be wrong as well. without looking at the situation from a neutral point of view and without being objective one can’t exactly say his point of view is right.
Therefore first one must go with a mindset of understanding the other persons thoughts. sit together and put across your thoughts and listen to others person’s thoughts. Don’t speak to influence but speak to clarify your thoughts to them. and Listen not to reply but listen to expand your horizon of thinking.
After this i am sure, whether your ideas are accepted or not, you will come out positive as
a. You have expressed yourself (you did all you could)
b. You expanded your horizon of thought and learnt something new.
2. Conflict in one’s own thinking
When one has conflicts with one’s own thoughts we must take it as an opportunity to learn. We must realize that we are having conflicting thoughts because we have somehow developed this skill of looking at a situation from all angles. This is a very wonderful virtue to have. This way we become more open minded.
We must understand the situation and see for the pros and cons and take a suitable decision. When we have done a thorough analysis of the situation and taken a decision it will result in success or failure. if its a success well and good, but if not, we still will remain positive for these two reasons
a. that we tried all possible angles and every angle taought us something new.
b. We actually didn’t know that we could even survive such conflicting situations in life. we did’t give up.
Life is a learning process. so what if we fall? all do… What differentiates us from others is the face that we got up and rose above the situation.
i would end with a Hindi quote, “manzil milegi bhatak kar hi sahi, gumraah toh woh hain jo ghar se nikle hi nahi”
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The most positive attitude in conflicting situations is to Live and let live