what may make someone subject to the torturous advice of all ?.
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Expressing views on cruelty, the Supreme Court in Samar Ghosh vs. Jaya Ghosh, (2007) 4 SCC 511, said, “We have come to a definite conclusion that there cannot be any comprehensive definition of the concept of “mental cruelty”, within which all kinds of cases of mental cruelty can be covered. No court in our considered view should even attempt to give a comprehensive definition of mental cruelty.”
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There seems to be a strong notion in society that men are always abusers and women are always the victim. Because of this no matter what the situation is, women get all the sympathy, but men rarely do. However, there are many cases where men are subject to torture by their spouses. So it’s wrong to say that men are the “stronger sex” and women are “innocent sex”. Read this article to know about what constitutes cruelty, what one should do if he is subject to cruelty and torture by his wife.
“MARD KO DARD NAHI HOTA” is good only in movies, ask a man facing torture from his wife, he will tell you “Kitna dard hota hai!” (How much it hurts).
Identify the act of Cruelty or Torture
Expressing views on cruelty, the Supreme Court in Samar Ghosh vs. Jaya Ghosh, (2007) 4 SCC 511, said, “We have come to a definite conclusion that there cannot be any comprehensive definition of the concept of “mental cruelty”, within which all kinds of cases of mental cruelty can be covered. No court in our considered view should even attempt to give a comprehensive definition of mental cruelty.”
So, the first thing one need to do is to identify whether you are becoming a victim of cruelty or not. If your wife is doing any of the below-mentioned acts, then you are a victim of cruelty –
Physical attacks on you.
Continuous rage, anger, screaming or yelling at you.
Constant belittling or criticising your abilities, employment or looks.
Publicly flaunting an affair or adulterous relationship.
Falsely accusing you of committing adultery
Failing to tell you about an acquired sexually transmitted disease, while continuing to maintain sexual relations with you.
Making it a ritual to stay away from the marital residence without any valid explanation.
There are many other kinds of abuse which a man has to face. There are times when a lady, deliberately or inadvertently, abuses her man.
Problems faced by men
Social problem: Our patriarchal society does not believe in the concept of victimisation of men. They just don’t subscribe to the idea that a man can ever be a “victim”.
Legal problem: There is a heavy gender bias in the Indian legislature. Plus, the legal community, like the society, is also prejudiced. Lawyers hardly take up cases where the defendant is a woman.
Administrative problem: Due to the heavy gender bias, administrative elements (such as the Police) hesitate to take action when a man lodges a complaint against a woman but will jump at any man who brushes past a lady, even by mistake.
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What I would suggest a man do in this situation
Collect as many evidence as possible
Save everything you think is relevant for your case. Take screenshots of the conversations, record calls, etc. which will intensify your chances of winning in a divorce suit. Also, this will help your advocate to trust you and in presenting evidence before the court will eventually make things easier for you and your advocate.
File a Complaint first
One should file a complaint as soon as he thinks that things aren’t under control. You can file a complaint in the nearest police station; the police will record everything you will tell them.
Benefits of doing this act