Question

what was more agonizing answar ​

Answer 1

Explanation:

Be careful what questions you ask. Any answer you get here will be an answer to your question, why life is agonising.

Perhaps a better question is, is life always agonising? If not, are there moments in it that are not?

That said, there are parts of life that are agonising. Most of the time this is because things don't go how we expect them to go.

Other times, things work out for us.

Life is agonising because we expect things. Stop expecting and let things happen, and life will stop being agonising.

That's not easy, so the alternative is to just accept that life has its pros and cons and that the pros make it worth living.