Question

When a good deed is to be done, what should be our attitude towards doing it?

Answer 1

Hey!

Any Behavior is more likely to be done if it Feels Good.

Thus, feeling good or great is an important part of any behavior if one wants to do it or make someone do it MORE.

Our Attitude MUST be how do I do this so that I feel GREAT...

Factually, doing good or acting KIND feels more Good against any other behavior.

Why don't people act Kind more then?

a. People over-do it or don't know that doing Kind will make them HAPPY for sure.

1. People undervalue Happiness in most important part of their Lives eg Job

2. People don't know and rely upon Science to build a Happy Life

3. People actually act in a way which Expands and increases their MISERY

4. People actually act Kind eg Donations from RIch and to their Family generally.
As many are CLOSED in their nature, they don't interact to STRANGERS and so, they don't do KIND act enough


Hope it helps!

Answer 2

When we do a good deed, we must never expect anything in return. We must do it because we want to not because we have to. It should come from the heart and we must make sure that doing one Good thing doesn't make us do something else that is bad.