Question

When you have spoken the word, it reigns over you. When it is unspoken you reign over it. Meaning

Answer 1

it means

jab aap kisi ko kuch kehte ho , to jo words aap bolte ho wo words apko rule karte hai aur aapko order karte hai to speak them out. lekin jab aap shant rehte hai tab aap uun words par rule karte ho

i hope now it is clear to you :)