Question

why do some most dear and near friends leave us in times of our needs..?

Answer 1

there are many friends for us but,you know what?they may be with you for using you only.shocked?yes,there are people who only use us and leave us when WE are in trouble.such friends are false friends and can be very dangerous.some more types of friends are there who admire you all the time and also be grateful and stuff to you.but leave you when you are in trouble.I call them summer friends
because migratory birds only search for summer.such friends are not good at all.

so be careful while making friends

(I hope this is what you need.THANK YOU.)

Answer 2

Sometimes, under specific circumstances, even our closer ones are not on our side. Sometimes, cowardice or desire overcome them. Therefore, we should be well-prepared for such challenges in our life and do not depend on others, because at the end of the day, our feelings matter the most, and these emotions do result in taking an appropriate or inappropriate step. We should be confident and powerful enough, that we are not able to let anybody break us down. Parents and teachers should be known to such concerns.