why we miss those who ignores us the most?
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So I see that you are not able to get this thing out of your mind that you are being ignored.
As a matter of fact each one of us get ignored by some one or in most cases by most of them. But do we really care if our distant relatives or neighbour ignores us. I guess not. That’s because being emotional fool (Thanks to God), we have this inbuilt quality to expect in return for our deeds. Instead of thinking why you are being ignored, you should just take some time out to think why does it matter to you if that persons ignores you and most importantly why this emotional drain happens only when this person ignores you.
The kind of feeling that you have in your heart might not be mutual. After all you can’t just force yourself on other.
When it happend to me from that one girl who was my priority, i felt sad, depressed, felt my self respect would go for a toss, cursed god and most importantly started comparing with all those guys who were not ignored by her.
How did I get over it? I just understood that no matter how much importance you give some one, the real deal lies in knowing whether the other party expected to be felt important or not from you.
What i did next?
Did nothing, just continued it doing so but this time without expectations.
What happened next?
It was high time and i found out that the best thing i could do for her and me was to be normal and let her go. She came back to me but not to ask why i stopped giving her attention but to ask why am i not the same and i quietly replied because time changes and so does people. You can either wait or move on. I decided to move on.
PLEASE MARK IT AS BRAINLIEST AND FOLLOW ME.