Question

Heya People!! Sup?

Sunday's back again,

I am very happy to get ur answers on the last question... :))))

I asked u if u are "satisfied" with ur life.... "Satisfaction" Its a big word in itself... Being satisfied with what we have is really an art... It doesn't mean being happy with your good things and things u love, it means being happy, accepting EVERY stuff that u undergo.. There is no permit for being satisfied..
answer these randomly to yourself...
1. r u satisfied when ur mom buys u a new bike instead of a tricycle?
2. '' if u get an A++ instead of an expected A
3. " new dress
4. " fav food is cooked
5. '' u failed in a test when u least expect it

tell me how many yes and how many no's... ?
Oh! 4 yes's and a no?
We usually get satisfied when we get more of what we want or desire or deserve... and try to be satisfied when we can get only little of what we expect... and when we get the things we never expect, we can't accept it.. and that goes indigested... so, there's no satisfaction... ultimately, that goes into the list of things we wish that never have happened
we might not like studying everyday, we might not like writing tests every week... we might not like particular traits of our body, we might not like our routine and want it more funny like any of our friends... we might like being hated for something... these r all simple examples but there is much complexity
If something very very difficult, and saddening happens, we say "WHY ??"

Ha!! But i ask u "WHY NOT"? whats wrong with experiencing bad stuff? why not?, its the way our life is designed, its the way we made it... if u get less marks in test and everyone looks u down, u ask many questions to yourself... why the other can do it and why not u? thats becuz," U are U" the other person is not U and U r not the other person.. we get to experience things which we don't want to, but they happened right? what can we do? digest them first, then u will know what must i do now? if u don't like studying but when u like learning? why not turn studying subjects to learning the fun out of the same boring subject?
u went through an road accident, and the driver died, while u seriously got injured.. u still r alive, the other lost his life, this satisfaction must make u take another step... WHAT MUST U DO NEXT?... think of how u must recover! think of how u r gonna be same normal person, what must be compensated... thats it!!! thats the key to make u succeed!! Satisfaction is not abt having something u want but accepting something u never want, love what u r given... love ur life, let it be in a joint family, or let it be, just ur mom and u, it doesn't matter unless and until u r not satisfied and acceptable... so whatever the situations were, never wish u go back there, becuz once u go there, u won't have today..

I asked u abt what u like abt urself and wht u dnt...
see, when u like somebody, wht do u do? u try to mingle with them and make them ur strong companion... and when u dnt like them, u always try to ignore them and get rid of them.. right? its the same with ourselves too... when u know, that particular things in u are likable, try to fuel them up and when u dnt like few things in u,here, just like its with a person, NEVER try to ignore them, NEVER build hate against them...NEVER feel bad abt them...NEVER get rid of them but wht we need to do is MAKE THEM UR FRIENDS... in the same way, TURN things u dnt like abt yourself UR STRONG POINTS .......

I asked u abt the no of people who hate u and who love u.... No of people who love u doesn't matter..no of people who hates u also doesn't matter but reason why those people hate u and love u is VERY VERY IMPORTANT...!! never neglet that... cuz thats the theory thats the work u need to work on analyze and correct urself... if someone likes u for a silly reason like u r beautiful, or u study well, u r popular, then, be care ful..... or if someone hates u for someone then things u think r correct but they think and the others think are wrong, then analise it and if needed, correct it, but don't neglet it....or if its nt even ur flaw, then let the others know their mistake.. i again repeat, don't neglect..but in case, if needed, u sometimes also have to neglet them(conditions apply)

and finally, i didn't get enough ans for the last question....

SO, now answer me,

1. TELL ME ABT

BEING HAPPY

LOVING SOMEBODY

BEING HATED

Thats it!!

Luv u people!!

Answer the 3 questions, and they are not as simple as they seem :)))))))))))

Answer 1

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Thanks for a beautiful question!

I really appriciate your effort and thoughts.

Its absolutely true that the four cases that you mentioned in beginning, I would have also given 4 yes and 1 no. Its all beacuse of all of us expectations, the things which we feel more good and happens suddenly give excitement feeling but when something happen which we don't want then we surely get furious and start criticizing our luck.

Its a natural fact that we always want yo get win but never want to face defeat. Even we never want to face defeat because we think that we can't even hold ourself at end.

When a child fails in exam then questions should be-

1. Why I failed in exam?
2. Why other passed?
3. What can I do to be winner?

Well, every one in this world want to be perfect. Even those who never work hard. But I opine that no one can be perfect or best but atleast can be different.

You in your question stated that true friends aren't those who only make friends ship because we are beautiful, brilliant, rank holder etc,. and if any one have friends only because these qualities then these friends will leave you one day when you will lost.

If I think of mine then I know that I am not the best nor perfect. But I am sure that I am not a carbon copy of anyone and am different. When whole class prays for getting easy paper then I search of something hard. Because uniqueness is found at difficulties.

If someone hates me then it can be that I am not capable to fulfill those qualities that they want as a friend and if I am a friend of anyone then will remain at last even if they are at problem. And same I too expect from my friends.

However you are also correct that at some instances its better to neglect or ignore when we are sure that we are right on our way.

Main part, you asked 3 questions

∆. The biggest thing to be happy is hope. Hope is that thing which keep you happy even when you are facing sadness or problems. When you have hope then you say no I can! I will! Because I have done!

But if you are hope less then, wooh! No one can help you untill you are determined. Determination is 1 key of success.

I think that there is a building which have some parts -

1. The base of this building is confidence. Whole building stands on it.

2. The first pillar is hope. It is strongest pillar.

3. The second one is diligence. When you work hard then only you get intelligence.

4. The last pillar is sacrifice. Its ond idiom that
" कुछ पाने के लिए, कुछ खोना पड़ता है!
Once should leave one thing to get other.

∆. Loving somebody. Well, it's very easy to fall in love but very hard to maintain it. I am not only talking about girl and boy. They can be friends, parents and children, sisters, brothers and sister and a brother.

In order to love you should ask why you have love. Only because they are parents or only because they are your own blood or only because you have crush on them. The real fact is to find difference. When they are unique then you are at right way but if they have only copied style of actor or actress then they are just a carbon copy.

And to be in love you yourself should be unique. You must not be a carbon copy but you should be yourself.

∆. Being hated. Very easy to hate someone. Only because they don't match your criteria but very difficult to make then feel that trust is better that criteria. If trust is not there then surely hat can be there and should be there. But if trust is there then two different criteria can even meet.

Similarly, to be in hate is easiest but to be loves by some one is difficult. Be the one who you are! Don't hide any bad quality or good quality. Don't has it ate and main thing change your character and thought to be loved by someone.

I think that failure is better than a win. No one want to learn and that's why no one wants to fail. The more we fail, the more we learn.

Failure claims to be better if you have guts to learn from it. You shoud learn, either you win or lose.

Always try to be different from other, do something great and different.

Life is all about practice and thought. Keep that building of humanity together to get win.

And that's how you reach to success.

Have great future ahead!

Keep going, keep motivated.