Psychology, asked by akash2609, 10 months ago

How does it feel to be betrayed by a friend Vs Best friend?


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Answered by proudyindian9603
7
When you are riding a vehicle.…………

Friend says-"yaar dheere chala thuk jainge"

and best friend says-
""bhaga yaar bhaga aage bollero me maal baitha hai""

sorry but dont mind it
but it is a dam true.………………

akash2609: Haha that sounds familiar!:DD
Answered by swapnama7
7

THIS IS A STORY OF  MY SISTER IN LAW....................

Flash back to 20 years ago… my best friend, whose name I won't tell, and me were both 16. I had found my first girlfriend around a couple of months before and I had organized a night out to have her meet my friends. It was a great night, everybody having fun… she was exchanging numbers with everyone. After some weeks she began to become more and more distant to the point where she began refusing to meet me when my friends where not around. She demonstrated a particular affection (the friendly kind) for the guy I was talking about in the beginning. So, a night, we were hanging out and he had a strange attitude… giving her a lot of attention and mainly cutting me out. It felt natural to ask them if something was going on. He took stance between her and me and asked if I was going to beat them… I didn't even understand why he was asking. I got mad, so I excused myself and decided to go home. The next day this girl asked me to meet her at her house and, without giving any reason, dumped me. I called the guy and, as I couldn't understand what happened, asked him for some explanation… he told me that she had been frightened by the aggressive stance I had the night before, but that he had exaggerated and so he thought she would have understood in a couple days… I told him I wasn't sure it was going to mend, and asked him, as they were friends, to look after her. One week later, after he had gone through a completely unrelated physical fight, they were together. It hurted quite a lot. But fate works in mysterious ways. 3 years ago I had a motorcycle accident and ended up having to go to an hospital 3 times a week… on the last time, as I was walking out, I decided to go for coffee and, as I was entering the cafe I bumped into her… we had not met for almost 16 years. We chatted a bit and decided to meet some day. We began seeing each other quite often as friends, but we were never talking about the accident. A night I was in some bar for a friend's birthday and again I bumped into her… we had some beers and she came out saying: “Man you gave a harsh beating to *guy whose name shall not be spoken*” And I was like… what?

It turned out that, after getting a beating by someone else he had blamed me and told her I had waited for him at his house. I told her I had nothing to do with it. She didn't believe me at first.

I asked her why and she answered that he told her not to worry because he knew I would have retaliated.

So… I asked her for her side of the whole story and…

He had planned it since the beginning… after he met her for the first time he spent a month telling her of my violent behavior and asking her if she was not afraid. In the meantime he was constantly trying to anger me… when I finally expressed my concerns about what they were up to he took the part of the hero saving her from the monster he had turned me into in her head. He even knew there was no risk as, despite my appearance, I am indeed a pacifist. He even lied to me when we met after telling me he was still with her after he had dumped her after one week. And lied to her telling I was mad to her and I had sworn I would have beaten her up like I had done (false) with the last.

End of the story?

We are married now.

We don't speak his name.

We know some day we'll probably meet him again.

We do not care because we decided he is dead.

Sometimes I fantasize about going after him, but he is not worth it.

Sometimes she does too.

We both recognize that what happened changed us… we are slowly getting back.



akash2609: Wow!
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