Question

How is self concept build and destroy?

Answer 1

1. Negative Work Environment. 

Beware of an environment of unhealthy rivalry, where everyone else is fighting just to get ahead. This is where non-appreciative people usually thrive.

No one will appreciate your contributions even if you miss lunch and dinner, and stay up late. Most of the time you get to work too much without getting help from people concerned. Stay out of this, it will ruin your self-esteem. Competition is at stake anywhere. Be healthy enough to compete, but in a healthy competition that is.

2. Negative people

Bulldozers, brown nosers, gossipmongers, whiners, backstabbers, snipers, people walking wounded, controllers, naggers, complainers, exploders, patronizers, sluffers, etc. All these kinds of people will pose bad vibes for your self-esteem, as well as to your self improvement scheme.

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3. Rigid systems

Changes challenge our paradigms. It tests our flexibility, adaptability and alters the way we think. Changes will make life difficult for a while, it may cause stress but it will help us find ways to improve our selves. Change will be there forever, we must be susceptible to it. Finding yourself in an environment that doesn't encourage creativity and innovation can really damage your self-esteem.



4. Past Experience

It's okay to cry when we experience pain. But don't let pain transform itself into fear. It might grab you by the tail and swing you around. Treat each failure and mistake as a lesson. Never allow past failures and mistakes to define your future.



5. Negative World View

Look at what you're looking at. Don't wrap yourself up with all the negativities of the world. In building self esteem, we must learn how to make the best out of worst situations.

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Answer 2

Your self-concept is built upon perception — upon how you perceive yourself based on the knowledge you have gained over a lifetime of experience. When it comes down to it, a self-concept is a perception you have of your image, abilities, and in some ways a perception of your own individual uniqueness.