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1) When I was entering my teens, I got a stepmother. She had a temper, and she is a bad person, in my opinion. One day, inside our car, my father looked me straight in the eye and told me "I'll never let anyone lay their hands on you or your brothers". Some time later, during a fight, which happened very often in our house, she broke my baby brother's toy guitar on my brother's arm. He tried to hit her back, but I held him and said "remember what my father said, she won't get away with this". But she did. He remained with her for years, until I showed him evidence that she was cheating on him. Lesson: people will say something looking you straight in the eye and do the opposite of what they said when the time comes. Words don't mean anything. Also, they will only act decisively when it affects them personally.
2) This is not an incident but a process. Ever since I was little I was fat, all the way to the final year of high school. Then I liked a girl, and got thin to maybe have a chance with her. I didn't, but I lost weight, and some time later one girl from my school said these exact words "Marcus is not ugly either" and looked at me when they were discussing cute boys. That was the first time in my life someone complimented me on my physical appearance. Lesson: people will treat you very differently based on your physical appearance. They can't help it. The opinions of good looking people carry more weight in a group, and making people laugh is much easier. Ugly, fat people, ironically, are pretty much invisible.
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1) When I was entering my teens, I got a stepmother. She had a temper, and she is a bad person, in my opinion. One day, inside our car, my father looked me straight in the eye and told me "I'll never let anyone lay their hands on you or your brothers". Some time later, during a fight, which happened very often in our house, she broke my baby brother's toy guitar on my brother's arm. He tried to hit her back, but I held him and said "remember what my father said, she won't get away with this". But she did. He remained with her for years, until I showed him evidence that she was cheating on him. Lesson: people will say something looking you straight in the eye and do the opposite of what they said when the time comes. Words don't mean anything. Also, they will only act decisively when it affects them personally.
2) This is not an incident but a process. Ever since I was little I was fat, all the way to the final year of high school. Then I liked a girl, and got thin to maybe have a chance with her. I didn't, but I lost weight, and some time later one girl from my school said these exact words "Marcus is not ugly either" and looked at me when they were discussing cute boys. That was the first time in my life someone complimented me on my physical appearance. Lesson: people will treat you very differently based on your physical appearance. They can't help it. The opinions of good looking people carry more weight in a group, and making people laugh is much easier. Ugly, fat people, ironically, are pretty much invisible.
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