Question

Point of view:
"Forgiveness is overrated."
If someone treated you in a bad way and you now think of them as a bad person, where's the harm in that? As long as you're not wasting your energy actively resenting them, then that's good enough. But feeling some pressure to take it a step further and forgive them seems pretty self righteous.
Those àsshóles need to treated like bîtch.

That's obviously my pov, what do you think?​

Answer 1

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Forgiveness is never about the other person. The other person’s need for your forgiveness is secondary to your need to forgive that person. It is entirely possible to hold on to the grudge forever. For multiple lifetimes, for eternity.

Even when the Earth cease to exist. There will still be you hating on this person like it really matters.

We see that a lot with trauma victims. People in general are quick to offer advice and ask the victim to forgive. That’s none of their business.

It creates internal disturbances. Your system is backlogged and you’re pretty stuck. So you somehow someday need to flush it all out. A real detox. But that’s for you to decide, when you want to get rid of this thing. This thing that’s not natural within you.

Answer 2

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