Question

write a short para on be willing to learn from friends and family

Answer 1

One of the saddest observations I've made centers around how reluctant many of us are to learn from the people closest to us - our parents, spouses, children, and friends. Rather than being open to learning, we close ourselves off out of embarrassment, fear, stubbornness, or pride. It's almost as if we say to ourselves, "I have already learned all that I can [or want to learn] from this person; there is nothing else I can [or need to] learn."


It's sad, because often the people closest to us know us the best. They are sometimes able to see ways in which we are acting in a self-defeating manner and can offer very simple solutions. If we are too proud or stubborn to learn, we lose out on some wonderful, simple ways to improve our lives.


I have tried to remain open to the suggestions of my friends and family. In fact, I have gone so far as to ask certain members of my family and a few of my friends, "What are some of my blind-spots?" Not only does this make the person you are asking feel wanted and special, but you end up getting some terrific advice. It's such a simple shortcut for growth, yet almost no one uses it.


All it takes is a little courage, and humility, and the ability to let go of your ego. This is especially true if you are in the habit of ignoring suggestions, taking them as criticism, or tuning out certain members of your family. Imagine how shocked they will be when you ask them, sincerely, for their advice.


Pick something that you feel the person you are asking is qualified to answer. For example, I often ask my father for advice on business. Even if he happens to give me a bit of a lecture, it's well worth it. The advice he gives usually prevents me from having to learn something the hard way.

Answer 2

It is rightly said that learning takes place from home first. However, today we refuse to learn from the people close to us and prefer another person whom we have never met or seen. It is the person close to us who knows us better and can make us learn better things better.

We should try to remain open with our family and friends while talking about topics. We should not rely on passive information. By opening up with family and friend it not only makes us feel wanted but helps in our growth and satisfaction. We should not let our ego hinder the relationship with our closed ones. Criticism does not work everywhere it only leads us to feel alone at the end. Seeking advice from parents is not a shame rather they help us guide better on various topics.